I always think it’s strange when people ask me questions like What are you looking for in someone? or What sort of relationship do you want?
When I’m by myself, I’m okay with just that. But when I’m around other people who pepper me with questions, it starts to make me feel like I shouldn’t be okay with it. Like I should be looking for Something Big and not happy with being on my own.
I start to feel ungrounded.
I’m looking for me to be grateful, happy, resilient, at ease, and at peace. I want a relationship with myself in which I’m honest, trustworthy, and respectful.
And I think that’s more than enough.